Spilling The Beans

  • How to Talk to Your Partner About Trying Sex Toys

    How to Talk to Your Partner About Trying Sex Toys

    I couldn’t help but wonder… why is it that we can discuss weekend plans, career goals, and even that awkward thing their mother said at dinner—but when it comes to bringing up sex toys, we freeze? The truth is, talking...

  • Valentine’s Day Survival Guide: How to Make the Most of February 14th (No Matter Your Mood)

    Valentine’s Day Survival Guide: How to Make the Most of February 14th (No Matter Your Mood)

    I couldn’t help but wonder… why does Valentine’s Day always feel like a test we didn’t sign up for? Whether you’re blissfully in love, fiercely single, freshly heartbroken, or just completely over it, February 14th has a way of making us...

  • Things You Shouldn’t Put Inside Your Body: A PSA

    Things You Shouldn’t Put Inside Your Body: A PSA

    I couldn’t help but wonder… when did we all start treating our bodies like science experiments gone rogue? Somewhere between old wives' tales, questionable TikTok trends, and that friend who swears by “natural” remedies, we’ve been bombarded with advice on...

  • What Your Masturbation Style Says About You

    What Your Masturbation Style Says About You

    I couldn’t help but wonder… if the way we order our coffee says something about our personality, does the way we touch ourselves reveal something even deeper? Think about it: Some people go for the quick and efficient espresso shot,...

  • Kinky vs. Vanilla: Is There a Competition?

    Kinky vs. Vanilla: Is There a Competition?

    I couldn’t help but wonder… when did sex become a competition? When did we start ranking our desires as if they were Olympic events, with gold medals going to those who push the limits and participation ribbons handed out to...

  • How to Feel More Confident During Sex

    How to Feel More Confident During Sex

    I used to wonder if confidence in the bedroom was something you were born with or something you could learn—like how to pair the perfect outfit with the right accessory. In a world where every kiss and caress seems scrutinized...

ODDETTE

  • What To Do When You’re Doing It (Wrong)

    What To Do When You’re Doing It (Wrong)

    @odd1ty In the midst of sex with my boyfriend, I had a realization that sort of took the wind out of my sails. Being the one on top, I opened my eyes to watch him enjoying himself, and thought ‘oh,...

  • I’ve Never Had an Orgasm

    I’ve Never Had an Orgasm

    @odd1ty ODETTE …At least not in my relationship. I love my boyfriend to bits, and you all know I’m more than willing to wax poetic about how good we have it. And the thing is, I’ve never had a long...

  • Entirely Un-Sexy Escape Rooms

    Entirely Un-Sexy Escape Rooms

    @odd1ty Odette Or otherwise known as ‘adult stores’ with stuff like ‘XXX’ on all the windows. Let's be clear—I am a timid person by nature, in and out of the bedroom, so sex shops are a little nerve-wracking. Nevertheless, I...

SCARLETT

  • Bondage Bliss

    Bondage Bliss

    @scarlettimes I have spoken about my perfectionist, control-oriented personality before; it’s not a trait I find shameful or shy away from, although some people can find it off-putting. You wouldn’t be entirely off the mark to suggest that this behaviour...

  • It’s a Hard Knocked Up Life

    It’s a Hard Knocked Up Life

      @scarlettimes SCARLETT Okay, the title is a bit misleading. I’m not pregnant again, I’m just emotional about the whole ordeal and really wanting to talk about it. Currently, bitty-baby is on my lap, tiny fists latched into my shirt...

  • I’VE BEEN COCK-BLOCKED BY A BABY

    I’VE BEEN COCK-BLOCKED BY A BABY

    @scarlettimes  Scarlett Although my body post-pregnancy has been feeling all over the place, my libido certainly has not! So I’m here to tell you an anecdote about being ‘baby-blocked’ from romantic evenings with my fiancé. Having a kid is a...

JEN

  • Orgasms have layers (like onions)

    Orgasms have layers (like onions)

    @jenderful JEN As a masturbation connoisseur (I say, praising myself), I have experimented plenty over the years and will continue doing just so. Hard and fast, slow and sultry, in the bath…you know I can give you a review, and...

  • THE PROS (and pitfalls) OF LOVING ALONE

    THE PROS (and pitfalls) OF LOVING ALONE

    @jenderful JEN As someone who blogs about sex, I get a lot of interesting (read: weird, invasive, personal, downright bizarre) questions thrown my way. And yet, time and time again, the one that confounds me most is   “If you like...

  • First Post 01/24/25

    First Post 01/24/25

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