Things Your Long-Distance Sex Life is Missing (And How to Fix It)
I couldn’t help but wonder… why does “out of sight” have to mean “out of sync” when it comes to long-distance intimacy? Just because your partner isn’t in the same zip code doesn’t mean your sex life has to suffer. If your LDR bedroom routine is starting to feel a little meh, it’s time to shake things up.
So, what’s missing? And more importantly, how do we fix it? Here’s the ultimate long-distance sex drawer checklist, featuring some must-have toys that keep the pleasure alive, no matter how many miles apart you are.
App-Controlled Toys: Bringing You Closer, One Vibration at a Time
What’s missing: Real-time pleasure & interactivity
Long-distance love is all about finding ways to stay connected. That’s where app-controlled sex toys come in. These devices let your partner control your pleasure from anywhere in the world, whether you’re across the country or just missing them on a work trip.
A Little Camera Confidence: Taking Your Video Chats to the Next Level
What’s missing: Visual connection & playful teasing
Sexy texts are fun, but let’s be real, nothing beats the intimacy of seeing your partner’s reaction in real-time. If your video calls have been all talk and no action, it might be time to introduce a little show and tell.
LDR Hack: Use a discreet, vibrator while FaceTiming and let your partner decide when (and how hard) you feel and use it.
Recommended: Mini Bean Vibe — Small, discreet, and perfect for teasing during video dates.
A Sensory Experience: Because Long-Distance Shouldn’t Mean Low Effort
What’s missing: Physical touch & sensory stimulation
Since you can’t feel your partner’s hands on your body, why not trick your senses into thinking you can? Soft restraints, scented candles, and warming massage oils can enhance solo pleasure while making your virtual encounters even more immersive.
Recommended:
Hot N Ready Lotion Candle: Turns into warm, skin-safe massage oil for added intimacy.
A Toy That Feels Just Like Your Partner
What’s missing: Something to keep you company between calls
Let’s be honest, sometimes you just need something that feels a little more real. A high-quality dildo, stroker, or dual pleasure toy can bring the physical presence of your partner a little closer to home (even if they’re miles away).
Recommended: Purple Power Suction Dildo, body-safe, and made for those “I just need you here” moments.
Double Trouble Internal and external pleasure toy, Does what his mouth and penis is'nt here to do!
A Sexy Surprise: Because Anticipation is the Best Aphrodisiac
What’s missing: Excitement & spontaneity
There’s nothing sexier than surprising your partner with something unexpected. Whether it’s a voice memo describing what you wish they were doing to you or a secret package arriving at their doorstep. Build the anticipation with a long-distance sex drawer that keeps both of you excited for what’s next.
Recommended: Build your own sex drawer and send it as a sexy surprise to your partner!
The Bottom Line? Distance Doesn’t Have to Mean Dull.
Long-distance relationships take effort, but your sex life doesn’t have to suffer. With the right toys, tools, and a little creativity, you can turn your LDR into something just as satisfying as being in the same room. So go ahead, fill that sex drawer and keep the pleasure alive, no matter the distance.
